It is not difficult and expensive to please a girl, especially if she loves you. As a boyfriend, it is your duty to give her more reasons to smile and make her feel loved and special. Though it may be difficult to understand a girl’s emotion, you can try different strategies to keep her happy.
Here are 30 things you can do to keep your girlfriend filled with joy in her heart.
- Tell her that you love her.
Hold her hand, look deeper into her eyes, and say those three words with eight letters. This is one of the simplest yet most important rules in every relationship. Letting her know how much you love her and how special she is for you won’t even make a dent in your wallet but will surely make her delighted.
- Write a love letter or leave little notes.
Giving your girlfriend something to read that will show how you think and feel about her throughout the day is one of the sweetest things you can do to her.
- Surprise her with flowers.
Girls have the simplest form of happiness. You may drop by at her house or office unexpectedly. Sending her flowers without any occasion is one of the best ways to make your girl ecstatic.
- Send her sweet text messages.
Shower her with sweet messages, tell her she is on your mind and let her know that you are missing her. Your message is not just a message, it’s her happiness.
- Call her.
At least call her once a day to ask how her day is going or what she is doing. She will appreciate it and will make her feel cared of.
- Respect her.
Give respect and you will receive respect. Always be chivalrous around your girl and learn to treat her like a princess. She’ll definitely love your courteous side and will make her satisfied even with just your simple acts.
- Make her feel secure.
Your protective streak will help you make your girlfriend happy. When your girl feels secure around you, she’ll feel like you are someone she can depend on anything and she’ll instinctively feel happier to be in love with you.
- Compliment her.
Girls love compliments, it makes them feel more appreciated. So when you notice something nice about her, give her the praise she deserves. Adore her beautiful smile, admire her new attire, or tell her you love her smell.
- Listen to her.
Pay attention to her when she’s talking to you. Sometimes, girls only need someone who will listen to all their rants about life. She’ll surely love you for doing it.
- Spend time with her.
This is one of the most important things you have to consider in every relationship. No matter how busy or hectic your schedule is, don’t forget to free your time and create sweet moments with her. Do things that will make your time memorable together, even in the simplest ways.
- Give her surprise gifts.
You don’t have to buy expensive gifts. A simple treat of her favorite ice cream, a box of chocolates, or a movie ticket is enough to make your girl happy.
- Pamper her.
Girls love to be pampered. Buy her the food she craves, tell her stories, recite romantic poems for her, or sing her favorite song.
- Make her laugh.
Tell her about a hilarious incident that happened to you or some funny things you read somewhere. This is not difficult as you think; you just have to share funny thoughts to make her laugh. If your jokes don’t make her grin, you might just try to make funny faces. 🙂
- Say sorry to her, sincerely.
Do not hesitate to say sorry if you’ve made a mistake. Do this even about things that may have seemed trivial. Let her know that you care about her feelings. Of course do it sincerely. And if you ask forgiveness thru text or chat messages, make sure you spell SORRY correctly.
- Give her a hug.
Give her a warm hug while smelling the scent of her hair. It will make your girlfriend feel that her boyfriend always misses her.
- Make her feel special.
Make her feel that she is unique and not ordinary. So if you are making efforts for other people, make sure you are making the best or most special effort for her.
- Thank her in every little effort she does.
Never forget to show your gratitude or appreciation whenever she does something special or thoughtful for you. A simple “thank you” can brighten up her day and make all her efforts worth it.
- Cook for her.
Don’t worry if you aren’t a master chef — it’s the thought, willingness and effort that count. It will make her romantically excited and happy because you are not only trying to win her heart and mind, but also her taste buds.
- Hold her hand in public.
It will make her feel protected, valued, and honored. It will make her happy, having the thought that you feel proud and lucky to have her.
- Always be there to lend a hand.
You don’t have to be Superman or Batman, but saving her and solving her simple everyday problems, from carrying a heavy luggage to finding a missing small stuff, will already make you her favorite superhero.
- Include her in decision-making.
You’re in a relationship so you should also act as one. Even though you’re the one who will decide which direction to take, also consider her ideas. She’ll see that you love her opinion and this will make her feel more valued.
- Be sweet to her.
Staying sweet with her no matter how long you’ve been together proves that you still love each other. A simple “I love you” or a simple present for her is enough to make her happy. Of course only show your sweetness and romantic side to her, not with other women… if you don’t like her to feel jealous and be upset.
- Set a romantic date.
Whether it’s in a fine dining restaurant, at the movie theater, at the park, or just inside your home — it doesn’t matter. What really matters is that it is romantic.
- Be loyal to her.
Loyal men are rare to find nowadays. So if you can prove to her your loyalty, then it will absolutely make her feel blessed and happy.
- Be nice to her friends and family.
Getting along with her friends and family will give your girlfriend a peace of mind for it means that she will have a life without conflicts among the people who are close to her heart. She will be happy to know that her boyfriend, friends and family are coexisting harmoniously.
- Share things with her.
What’s yours is hers as well, whether it’s tangible like your bicycle or intangible like your secrets. She’ll be happy if you share things with her without any hesitations. Be open and trustworthy to her, as she is also open and trustworthy to you.
- Go on a trip together.
Planning out on a week together feels better to keep away from all the stress at work. This will also help you bring back the passion and excitement in your relationship. Girls keep some relationship goals, and travelling together is probably one of them. So if you will help her achieve her relationship goals, that would be satisfying.
- Show her that you’re interested in her interests.
You probably don’t care about the TV show she’s obsessed with. You don’t have to actively participate in all her interests. However, you have to show to her that you acknowledge them. Show her some enthusiasm when she talks about them.
- Value her point of view.
Listen to her and let her say whatever decision she has in mind. Respect her point of view as you would expect her to respect yours.
- Be true to your words; be true to your actions.
Never ever lie to her, whether it’s through your words or through your actions. Do not be a liar and a great pretender. Finally, always make her happy because it’s what your loving and cheerful heart tells you so, not just because your girlfriend wants it… or not just because, in this article, I have told you so.
There you have it! I hope this will help all the guys out there to keep their girlfriend happy. Always remember that every girl deserves a man who will fill their heart, mind, and life with joy and gladness.